8 Reasons Why Younger Generations Aren't Interested in Love, Check It Out

Many times, we believe that the past was better. We'd like to return to those areas where everyone seems to be in love, when time seems to stand still between bohemian nights and the happy, carefree lives of a less technologically advanced planet.

 

Have you ever considered how this time period will be remembered in the future? What would the inhabitants of our planet think of our social conduct, traditions, and weird ways of coping with love in fifty years?

 

 

More and more people are giving in to love these days. Generation X was unconcerned about romantic concerns and instead focused on achieving personal and professional achievement.

 

 

It was more essential to them than having a beautiful family, as it had been in previous generations, to have prosperity and economic freedom.

 

 

Then, generation Y abandoned romantic norms and previous love partnerships in favor of a far more sensible and logical love. A concept in which previous traditions were absent, a new love found in the modern world.

 

 

However, how can we face an unknown love in a society where the most essential thing isn't a social contract to marry individuals, make alliances, and secure a future, but rather an unknown love?

 

 

People have no instructions on how to deal with love, so they make the best of it. Yes, new generations may have abandoned traditional love, but we are now confronted with one that is far more equal, humane, and respectful, with more balance on both sides of the relationship.

 

 

Despite this, many argue that new generations have lost interest in having a romantic connection, which could be crucial to our lives and happiness, but why has our generation abandoned love?

 

 

It's difficult to decipher because there are a number of essential aspects that cause us to realize that the factors that influence our decision to stay in a stable relationship are increasing.

 

 

Here are eight reasons why fewer and fewer individuals are abandoning love in favor of a solitary existence.

 

 

1. We are more concerned with immediate gratification than with anything else.

We grew up in a world where we were surrounded by luxury and had easy access to everything.

 

 

If we want food, we can get it immediately; if we are bored, we can use video game consoles or mobile phone apps to entertain ourselves from the comfort of our own homes. Nothing like this has ever happened to previous generations.

 

 

We have gotten addicted to rapid pleasure as a result of technological advancements, and this terrible habit is to blame for the breakdown of our romantic relationships.

 

 

In contrast to our daily lives, love necessitates something much more lasting, requiring more effort in exchange for higher rewards.

 

 

2. We've created a culture that values trivial pleasures like alcohol and drugs.

 

 

Furthermore, because they induce pleasure rapidly, drugs and alcohol become one of the easiest ways to acquire instant gratification.

 

 

We drink with our pals when we're sad, we smoke tobacco when we're anxious, and we buy stronger stuff when we want to relax and forget about life for a while.

 

 

Drugs and alcohol, on the other hand, are frequently the deadliest enemies of love. These chemicals offer us the illusion of a different reality, one in which feelings are considerably more strong, and they lead us to believe that love is not the same as what we actually experience.

 

 

3.- We try too many new things.

People have many partners every year, and although there's nothing wrong with experimenting because it's fun, many of these couples end up being hollow experiences that make us feel even more lonely.

 

 

4.- Our egocentricity increases.

Humans are born with the propensity to be egocentric, but our egocentrism often interferes with our ability to feel empathy, and as humans, we have no choice but to exist within society.

 

 

A love relationship resembles a partnership, although it only involves two people. When we simply think about ourselves, our needs, and our desires, we forget about our partner's needs, and everything starts to fall apart.

 

 

6.- Compromises are something we despise.

 

 

There can be no relationship without commitment, it's as simple as that. A partnership requires two individuals, and today's generation is looking for fewer duties in order to live a life that fits their personality.

 

 

As a result, rather than focusing on addressing the requirements of the partnership, they just attempt to meet their own.

 

 

7.- We haven't given up on fairy tales.

Many of our generation's top ten lists still include a Disney film. We grew up with them and learned everything we know about love from their experiences.

 

 

The issue is that most movies establish false expectations, and when we meet a great love, we often anticipate it to be as it is in fairy tales, and that it would endure forever.

 

 

8.- We are mislead into believing that perfection may be attained.

We sometimes strive to be flawless individuals, which is impossible to achieve. We will all fail; we will witness other people's loves that appear to be ideal and compare them to our own.

 

 

Those comparisons can lead us to assume that we aren't with the proper person when, in fact, we are in love with the right person. There are no such things as perfect loves; there will always be clashes and disagreements.

 

 

There won't be any fairy tale stories, and we won't always feel like we're on cloud nine, but being with that person could still be the finest thing that has ever happened to us.

 

 

Everyone loves in their own manner, yet many people are confused and don't know how to deal with the opposite sex.

 


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