BLUNTNESS

Blunt people are usually said to be rude but blunt people are just outspoken, courageous, fearless and are ready to face anything

BLUNTNESS 

Bluntness is in general classified as being rude, that means that most or all blunt people are classified as very rude people.

But this might not be the case for some people as blunt people are people that are straight forward never sneaky and always hit the point at once without considering other people feeling or choices. They are usually direct and outspoken they say what they think without being polite or considerate. This people are mostly trusted to give the best advice as they tell you exactly what your problem is without hiding anything and give you the solution that could benefit you even if it ruins you at the same.

Bluff implies an unintentional roughness together with so much good-natured heartiness that others rarely take offense.

Having such a person as a friend will help you greatly because with them always being blunt and tell you the truth at every point in time, having such a person as a friend means purity, transparency, honesty and clarity. You would never feel insecure about your safety or issues as they will always be there to watch your back and try to protect you.

WAYS TO DEAL WITH BLUNT PEOPLE

1.They don't lie or flatter you, they tell you the blunt truth:-

They will always tell you the blunt truth and you can always trust them, they would never want to be seen as liars so they always tell you how they feel and give you nothing but the truth.

2. They are not scared:-

They are not scared of consequences of their action as they are sure that what they are doing is the right choice or decision they have made is the right one.

They ate bold they are courageous and fearless, with such people around you your confidence will be boasted and courage reassure.

3. They do not want to have fake relationship

Since they ate always straight forward and outspoken, they do not neednor have fake relationships and friendships. Cause they are always real and are always looking out for their own interest. And if they find out that they are wasting and faking their time with you they will be the first to take the first step out of the relationship.

4. They acknowledge their wrong doings

They are not afraid to acknowledge their wrong doings and apologize for it. They may not consider your feelings but they are willing to apologize anytime they feel or know they have hurt your feelings.

5. They know their right from wrong

They know their left from right and their right from wrong and they have high moral standard and if you are close to them you'll have too keep up. They always want to do what right and never leave or drop their standards.

6. They are fun to be around

Blunt people have a high and great sense of humor, are not to be taken serious when they make fun of you. They may make fun of your mistakes and let you know that life is not to be taken to seriously, and that it ok to make mistakes as those mistakes defines us.

7. They forgive easily

Just as they always ask for forgiveness they are always quick to forgive you and move on. They don't hold grudges and they may feel uncomfortable if they are not in good terms with their friend. They never hold Rosemont for too long.

8. They respect your views and choice

If you make a decision no matter how wrong it is they will respect your choice not without telling you the real truth. They will tell you the way it is straight and simple and if you chose to continue with your decision they will respect your decisions.

Having a blunt friend is even in your best interest, as you will be always be sure to make the right decision.

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Chiamaka Okafor

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