5 Signs Your Partner Is Trying To Take Over Your Life, Check It Out

Is your relationship making you feel stressed? Everything was happy and exciting when you first started, but now things are getting out of hand? Your partner restricts your freedom and scrutinizes everything you do. It's time to figure out why you're dissatisfied in your relati

 

 

5 Signs Your Partner Is Trying To Take Over Your Life

 

 

 

As a result, we'll show you five symptoms that your partner is trying to take control of your life.

 

1. He is possessive and jealous.

Your significant other is envious of the way you live your life. Every time you go out with your buddies, he demands an explanation.

 

He's also possessive and insecure, so he'd like to have complete control over your phone and the people you meet.

 

He expects you to spend all of your time with him and nothing else.

 

2. He is a bully

He becomes violent and physically and emotionally assaults you in order to gain control of your life.

 

This is his way of informing you that you must pay attention to him and follow his instructions.

 

3. He severs your ties with your family and friends.

He isolates you from your friends and loved ones. He doesn't like it when you spend time with other people.

 

He dislikes the fact that you have a large number of friends and an active social life. Even when you're with other people, he attempts to make you feel horrible in order to isolate you and make you suffer.

 

4. He casts doubt on your beliefs

Your partner does not share your viewpoints. He continually questions what you believe, whether it's your religious faith or your way of life.

 

In fact, he continues to question your beliefs in order to persuade you to change your mind. This demonstrates that he is attempting to seize control of your entire life.

 

5. He makes you feel insignificant.

He tells you all the time that you aren't good enough. This makes you feel insecure and exposed.

 

You're under duress, weak, and exposed. This allows him to have complete influence over your life. Don't let that happen.

 

What should you do if your boyfriend is abusive?

 

You should be aware that a relationship in which one partner tries to force his or her thoughts or requirements on the other is a toxic connection that leads to pain.

 

Someone who wishes to control you does not love you; rather, it is a relationship in which he or she treats you as an item of their property rather than a person.

 

In a healthy relationship, there must be trust, respect, and acceptance; when threats or blackmail are used to get the partner to stop doing or do something, the relationship becomes toxic, and it is best to end it.

 

 

 

Controlling or attempting to control you signs include:

 

Wants to know your passwords and makes suggestions about how you should dress.

 

Wants to be in charge of your credit cards and finances

 

Demands that you cease hanging out with family members and calls you all the time to find out what you're doing.

 

Requests that you avoid particular friends.

Controls every dollar you spend and is always making decisions about where to go, travel, and eat.

 

It feels like lying gives you a little freedom because the things you do, like cleaning and cooking, never seem to be good enough for him or her.

 

With his sarcasm or quips, he can be hurtful.

 

He holds you responsible for his misfortunes.

 

Follows you or spies on you

The more indications you notice in your relationship, the more concerned you should be; all of these behaviors are alienating and depersonalizing; you should not let them to govern your life; you deserve to be an authentic person who feels free.

 

You must value what is happening and have self-love; you must quit letting these acts to confine you.

 

Tell your spouse how you feel about it; if he or she doesn't comprehend what's going on, if it appears normal to him or her, then you should ask yourself, "Is this what I want?" Is it true that I am content in this state?

 

Someone who refuses to accept the obvious, who does not recognize it, is not going to change, and no one changes because you ask them to, or because they see you suffer or become angry. All you can do is walk away; if they don't care about you, who will?

 

You must value yourself, and you have the choice of obtaining professional assistance to help you deal with your circumstance so that you do not feel insulted or criticized, but rather as a person with difficulties that can be treated to improve both.

 

If your partner refuses to attend the help, there is little you can do; nevertheless, you should be aware that people may become accustomed to anything, and if you stay with him, you will become accustomed to being unhappy and under his control.

 


Ijeoma Anyah

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