OPPOSITE **** RELATIONSHIPS 👫
'Please don't ever talk to me again. I only feel comfortable conversing and doing stuffs with my fellow ladies. What is your problem? Stop coming to me. I have told you severally that I am not interested in joining your team because boys are just too plenty in this group.' Jane blurts at Nelson angrily.
Nelson swallows hard and stares at Jane dumbfounded. He had only wanted Jane to work together with him on an idea that will be beneficial to the team.
💥 Some people constantly find themselves in the dilemma of what their disposition should be when it comes to relating with the opposite ****. Due to this dilemma, many have gone to a detrimental extreme. It is either they find themselves in unnecessary gender based isolation or they find themselves sinking into pre-marital/immoral affairs on the other end.
📍 However, the most important thing is to know where and when to draw the line in relationship with them.Many relevant opportunities are been lost due to unnecessary gender-based bias in interpersonal relationships.
Who says you cannot have intellectual or normal conversations or build relevant life-transformational connections with the opposite ****?
No one is telling you to ignore growth, interpersonal relationships and friendly communications.
If you shy away from good interpersonal interactions with everyone regardless of the **** they belong, you might be indirectly shooting yourself in the leg and it might be too late before you realize it.
When to raise a Question Mark?
💎If his or her actions/inactions is tending towards a subtle request for romantic relationship yet they are not even wiling to see your parents or concretize marriage plans.
💎 If he or she does not respect your stands and perceptions in certain sensitive aspects that are important to you.
💎 If he or she seems to be getting on something realistic like tieing the nuptial knot but engages other people of your **** in the same sweet talks.
💎 If he or she comes around too often and makes you divulge too much details and information about yourself when you barely know their own true identity and personality.
💎If as a married man or lady, a third party is seeking too much warm attention from you. Indeed, you can always tell.
📌A man cannot deceive himself. Hence, except we want to pretend, we all can tell when we tend to fall extreme. Failure to raise the question marks when necessary is capable of leading to heartbreaks and other related regrets.
✍🏽ALUKO DEBORAH J.B
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